Things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmmmm..................

docoldsotherhalf · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 10:14 am

I learned at a very early age that when someone says something about you that is not true it is better to keep your mouth shut (hard lessons learned on that) cause most people assume that if you need to adamantly defend yourself on something it must be true :shock:

Of course you also learn that if you feel the need to defend yourself to your "friends" it generally means it is true, cause your "friends" would never question you on it in the first place. I guess what I am trying to say is that those that feel the need to constantly defend themselves must have something to hide. Those that admit to their faults quickly instead of hiding from them will always come out better in the end.

As a person I like said at one time "This may not make sense to you but those that understand it will and that is all that matters"

Remember the internet is a fickle being, if you take it to seriously it will be your downfall! And that people is my prophecies of the day, take it as you will

Susie · **Joined:** Jan Wed 12, 2005 9:44 pm **Posts:** 2441

Thanks Shannnon :wink:

bbnova · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 10:17 am

I love you Shannon.....

docoldsotherhalf · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 10:18 am

bbnova wrote:

I love you Shannon.....

Love you to Kev...................

docoldsotherhalf · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 10:19 am

Susie wrote:

Thanks Shannnon :wink:

Right back at ya Babe, your the best

BBnova1fan · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 10:19 am

docoldsotherhalf wrote:

I learned at a very early age that when someone says something about you that is not true it is better to keep your mouth shut (hard lessons learned on that) cause most people assume that if you need to adamantly defend yourself on something it must be true :shock:

Of course you also learn that if you feel the need to defend yourself to your "friends" it generally means it is true, cause your "friends" would never question you on it in the first place. I guess what I am trying to say is that those that feel the need to constantly defend themselves must have something to hide. Those that admit to their faults quickly instead of hiding from them will always come out better in the end.

As a person I like said at one time "This may not make sense to you but those that understand it will and that is all that matters"

Remember the internet is a fickle being, if you take it to seriously it will be your downfall! And that people is my prophecies of the day, take it as you will

Very well said Shannon... I totally agree 100%...

docoldsotherhalf · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 10:20 am

BBnova1fan wrote:

docoldsotherhalf wrote:

I learned at a very early age that when someone says something about you that is not true it is better to keep your mouth shut (hard lessons learned on that) cause most people assume that if you need to adamantly defend yourself on something it must be true :shock:

Of course you also learn that if you feel the need to defend yourself to your "friends" it generally means it is true, cause your "friends" would never question you on it in the first place. I guess what I am trying to say is that those that feel the need to constantly defend themselves must have something to hide. Those that admit to their faults quickly instead of hiding from them will always come out better in the end.

As a person I like said at one time "This may not make sense to you but those that understand it will and that is all that matters"

Remember the internet is a fickle being, if you take it to seriously it will be your downfall! And that people is my prophecies of the day, take it as you will

Very well said Shannon... I totally agree 100%...

Thanks Rita, coming from you makes me feel good, your the bestest :wink:

docoldsotherhalf · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 10:22 am

cailin wrote:

shannon beautifully written ,was just feeling and thinkin all the same thought s,the computer can be an ugly playground .and thank you from one of those people that understands ,and u keep all the same in mind !

From the the gal that knows it best, love all the way to Philly and back from an Upstate New Yorker luv

BBnova1fan · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 10:24 am

docoldsotherhalf wrote:

cailin wrote:

shannon beautifully written ,was just feeling and thinkin all the same thought s,the computer can be an ugly playground .and thank you from one of those people that understands ,and u keep all the same in mind !

From the the gal that knows it best, love all the way to Philly and back from an Upstate New Yorker luv

I think the love on this board goes along way across the states... And we would travel miles for one another....

bbnova · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 10:26 am

I agree Rita... Friends mean alot.....

Camp Stanley · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 10:36 am

Howz about a group hug?
I'll go first: UUUUUUUUmmmmmmmmmmmhhhhhhhhhhhh
Bye all....

docoldsotherhalf · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 11:07 am

What they don't realize is that their small mindedness makes it that much easier to forget about them, when they make you feel unimportant they only make themselves that easier to forget. As the bumper saying goes "MEAN PEOPLE SUCK" and sadly only makes their lives that much more small :shock:

cailin wrote:

just to add a bit of mindfullnes to this thread ,to be beaten down with words is something i understand all to well ,it is something i have wayyyyyyy too much experiance at the hand of the same people over and over or person ,it takes a very small mind to have the power that small mind thinks he has ,only the power he has is about the size of his .... ok be nice .lol lets just say his power is much smaller tiny tiny inceewincee than his ego likes to think it is ,the person that stoops to the level of telling lies and makin up stories {my trash talkin was the truth ,but i removed it for the sake of keeping peace in the agrement that this little game wouldnt continue}regardless of the fact that i have been attacked over and over on web sites and behind the scence by people that were SUPPOSE TO be a friend to me i kept my mouth shut .and i agreeded that i wouldnt say another word in ref. to any of the crap and bullshit that goes on in my personal life .therefore ,it matter not to me what this amn or anyone else has to say about me ,because my word stands i wont wont get into anything about her life his life my life .anything more that continues from this point out will only show the true chacter of the people that chose to write the words ,i am 100 % done playin games with them

GEARJAMMER EXPRESS · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 11:24 am

I posted this once before and it sounds like a good time to post it again

Friendship isn't always easily described. The Eskimos, they say, have a hundred different words for snow. Unfortunately, the English language isn't quite as innovative, though it has vast opportunities to differentiate meaning. Certainly, Love is one of those opportunities. And so, too, is Friendship.

Instead of different words, however, we're stuck with simple adjectives. Close friend. Best friend. Childhood friend. Intimate friend. Trusted friend. Beloved friend. But whether you use adjectives or different words, few could deny the nearly infinite meaning in such a simple word.

Friends are special people. We can't pick our family, and we're sorely limited in the number of them at any rate. Society and morles (and often our own conscience) dictate we select a single mate. But our friends can be as diverse and infinite as the adjectives we choose. Our friends, in a very real sense, reflect the choices we make in life.

Those of you who know me understand where I stand, and if you are my friend, (bbnovaracing family) I stand beside YOU!!!!!

docoldsotherhalf · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 11:28 am

Well worth the second posting!

As I said the last time you posted this, If I was to put all of my friends in one room most of them would NOT get along with each other, they are a very diverse group and I love each and every one of them for who they are as a person, thanks again for posting this reminder of friendship!

GEARJAMMER EXPRESS wrote:

I posted this once before and it sounds like a good time to post it again

Friendship isn't always easily described. The Eskimos, they say, have a hundred different words for snow. Unfortunately, the English language isn't quite as innovative, though it has vast opportunities to differentiate meaning. Certainly, Love is one of those opportunities. And so, too, is Friendship.

Instead of different words, however, we're stuck with simple adjectives. Close friend. Best friend. Childhood friend. Intimate friend. Trusted friend. Beloved friend. But whether you use adjectives or different words, few could deny the nearly infinite meaning in such a simple word.

Friends are special people. We can't pick our family, and we're sorely limited in the number of them at any rate. Society and morles (and often our own conscience) dictate we select a single mate. But our friends can be as diverse and infinite as the adjectives we choose. Our friends, in a very real sense, reflect the choices we make in life.

Those of you who know me understand where I stand, and if you are my friend, (bbnovaracing family) I stand beside YOU!!!!!

Nikki · **Posted:** Apr Thu 14, 2005 1:18 pm

Well, Hello to all in the bbnova family and friends land!

I at most times don't post alot and do alot of observing.....today I can't keep my mouth shut.... :shock:

Oh my goodness...watch out. haha I must say that this is one of the best groups of people I have ever had the privilage of talking to!

I truly believe in my quote of everything you do in life echos for an eternity....My mom always told me that you could count "your true friends of life" on one hand! She (as usual) is so right. I take friendship very serious and hold a very loyal heart to those I consider my "true friends". Now...I am NO ONE SPECIAL but to listen to some of the crap that small minded people chose to post and speak of really just need a good dose of

to clean up HIS act! I mean we all know that

in our lives... EVERYONES... and I'm sure they wouldn't want all their stuff echoing for them! I at one time went against someone on another board (someone that I hold a very loyal heart to now!!!!!! ) because of this small minded person, and because I didn't listen to the other side and or because I STUCK MY NOSE SOMEWHERE WHERE IT DIDN"T BELONG!!!! :shock:

I am glad that I did or me and that person would not now be such good friends... but the hurt it caused taught me that the thing we were all lacking is maturity.... :oops:

I think its time for the person that (can't help the fact he is small minded) needs to GROW UP and let other people fight their own battles! Now...just to clarify something...I am not in anyway contradicting myself...I am not fighting anyone elses battles and or defending/ or rebutting against everyone. Simply stating my opinion and yes....those are like ass holes :bart:

...everyone has one, but right now standing outside looking in and watchin VERY GOOD PEOPLE get their feelings hurt for childish crap (and damit I could sling some crap) and the small mind is "doing it because someone else got their feelings hurt!" Makes NNOOOOOOOOOOOO sense to me! frankly is pissin me off! I said watch out ... lol Now can we all stand up and shout one of our childhood favorites... STICKS AND STONES MAY BREAK MY BONES BUT NAMES WILL NEVER HURT ME!

I truly love you all and like the fact that I have you all to call my friends!!!!! And damit...small minded people don't want me to have to start slingin SHIT to defend my friends! Cause it just might have a rock or a stick in it! haha SAY RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lOVE YA GUYS AND GALS!

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